Mila, Ellie and Nevan!
I created this blog to share fun, sweet, memorable stories of three amazing angels: My two nieces, Kamila Luz and Elana Paz, and my nephew, Nevan Budd.
Whatever you are inspired to share on the blog, too, please do!
Mila, Ellie and Nevan, I sure hope that one day you will look back at these entries and remember all of our fun together.
Eternally yours...Love, Aunt Jen!
Sunday, December 22, 2013
Don't grow up!
I am at Ellie's soccer game and overhear the following conversation between Tiff and Nevan:
Tiffany: Nevan, please don't grow up...because then you won't to sit in Mommys lap and snuggle. :(
Nevan: But Mommy, I don't know how to change that!
:)
If only we could really make them stop growing up. :):)
Love you three angels so much.
Love,
AuntJen
Saturday, December 21, 2013
CAR CITY!
NEVAN: Mila! Mila!
ME: Yes?
NEVAN: Can you play?
ME: Play what?
NEVAN: Car City!
ME: I am busy...
NEVAN: But I will do your homework for you!
ME: I am not busy with my homework.
NEVAN: What are you busy on?
ME: I am reading.
NEVAN: Ugh!
ME: Can't you see that I am reading? I have a book in my hands!
NEVAN: Oh, I am playing by myself now.
Wednesday, July 31, 2013
Summer, summer, summertime...
3:34pm and it read:
Nevan:
"I like drinking a cold drink.
It, like, gets the sun out of my whole body."
:-)
Monday, September 3, 2012
Grammy's Birthday
Today, I am headed to drive our favorite path long A1A to view the gorgeous ocean while playing favorite songs that she and I used to sing-to together. :)
I miss you everyday, Mom.
The kids and I talk about you every time I am with them and they too have so many amazing memories with you.
We will never forget you Grammy and will celebrate you by living each day to the fullest just like you did.
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Tuesday, May 1, 2012
Energy
You never cease to amaze me; you just go-go-go and I love it!
You guys rock.
:)
Love,
AuntJen
More art work by Mila
Love you!
~Aunt Jen
Saturday, April 28, 2012
Tuesday, April 24, 2012
Mila, the Artist!
Wednesday, April 11, 2012
Heart mending
She has been having more trouble than ever and I'm really sad about it...I don't feel strong at all at the moment although everyone around me keeps saying how much I am and how they couldn't do it, yada yada.
This month is just a touchy month for me I think, so every thing makes me tear up....
Anyway, I got back to the house from my knee doctor appointment and Tiff was here with Mila, Ellie and Nevan....when I opened the door Nevan came running over to me and said "Aunt Jen!" then immediately grabbed my legs and gave me the best hug ever.
It's amazing how the little things these angels do mend the little tears in my heart....
I love you three more than you may ever know.
Friday, March 30, 2012
It's times like this.....
Not just what has been, but what is to come.
Memories flood in and play through my mind as if I'm sitting in a dark movie theater all alone...goosebumps and tears are my new makeup style.
The beautiful moments Mom and I have shared in just my 35 years on this earth play over and over like a
beautiful precious broken record in my mind. Wanting more and blessed for even these...
And I find myself staring at her and imagining what her life was like pre-kids; based on all her stories of being a child in Ocala then falling in love with my Dad and following him to various Air Force bases to be with the
man she loved. It was truly a journey for love, all the way to the Philippines where they were married.
Such a beautiful 36 year love story. And really, it's not just Mom and Dad but the family they created when Tiff and I were born.
We are so blessed for the time we all shared together all those years growing up...so precious....ones we will
never be able to replace.
Love you Fresh Gresh's. :):)
Friday, March 16, 2012
Where have you been?
Monday, November 21, 2011
Ellie's a Heart Hero
Physical Education
Thank you to all who helped raise the money to continue the research needed to save lives with heart disease.
Tuesday, November 15, 2011
Did you know that Grammy...
Sunday, November 6, 2011
When I grow up!

Saturday, October 29, 2011
Love and marriage
Yes I do and we’re not getting married soon but we did talk about our wedding today. Grammy his name is Constantine, and he speaks three languages! Grammy I love him SO much (with enthusiastic emphasis on the “so much.”
She was just so excited!
I felt older than dirt, thinking about how grown up she seemed at age seven! What a wondrous treat it is to be near my grands, and this particular event was extremely special! I pray I have more years left to enjoy them all. The three sweetest children in all God’s world.
I am so blessed: first two special daughters of whom I am so proud, and now my grands: Mila and Ellie and Nevan all of whom I could start hugging and continue forever and ever.
Monday, October 24, 2011
Pescaphobe / Pescaphile
(scarfing down Aaron's pan-seared tilapia)
Sunday, October 23, 2011
Saturday, October 22, 2011
What a beautiful honor. I love you,Daddy!
He's all boy!
One proofreader and one knowledgeable gamer
Ellie quickly retrieved the "trouble" game and began playing and asked if I would play too a little later, which we did although she kept having to keep me straight with the rules, I messed up many times but she always corrected me quite patiently.
Mila had brought over a book with her to read, "Swiss Family Robinson," which she completed fairly quickly. Once she was done she announced she had already finished the whole book. and then said "Grammy, there's a mistake in this book," and looked astonished that an error could be in a printed book. She turned right to the page of which she spoke and showed me the typo she had found!!! It was E comma lizabeth. [E,lizabeth] She was annoyed they put a space and a comma in the middle of her great grandma's name.
Learning the world isn't perfect can be a shocker.
Thursday, July 28, 2011
Ellie is fantastic
Mommy, I'm all sweaty from riding my bike without training wheels and most of the time not falling! - Ellie
Sunday, May 15, 2011
EDWARD L. GRESH Obituary by Gainesville Sun

Edward Leon Gresh, 65, of Gainesville, FL passed away May 4, 2011 accompanied by his family in the E.T. York Hospice Care Center in Gainesville after having suffered a sudden heart attack on April 23rd.
"Big Ed" will be remembered as an outstanding Cox Cable employee and gregarious Tropical Sno owner-operator during the 1980s and since then a highly recognizable character around the UF campus. For more than twenty years as Senior Communications Engineer he designed and built campus-wide networking solutions and earned many accolades, including the University President's Award for Excellence.
He will also be celebrated for his efforts to help those in need, his abiding love for his children and grandchildren, and his unmistakable zest for life.
Ed was born in Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania and spent most of his childhood there; he lived in Hawaii as a toddler and in Raleigh, North Carolina as a teenager. He attended East Carolina University and was a member of the Phi Kappa Tau Fraternity for two years before enlisting in the Air Force. He ultimately served as a telecommunications engineer at Clark Air Base in the Republic of the Philippines, where he married Myra N. Cash in 1968. After his honorable discharge he moved to Gainesville to attend the University of Florida and later raise his family. While Ed and Myra divorced in 2004, they remained affectionate friends, fondly keeping in touch over the years. In July of 2009, he and Peggy Goldberg held a beautiful wedding ceremony in the Baumann Center on Lake Alice, followed by a Hawaiian honeymoon.
He was preceded in death by his father Lt. Col. (USAF) John Andrew Gresh, mother Wilhelmina "Eleanor" Masavage Gresh, stepmother Audrey Hope Gresh, and his guardians Marvin Reynolds and Martha Adeline Masavage Reynolds ("Aunt Agum"), whom he treasured as dearly as beloved parents.
He is survived by his loving wife "Peggy" Margaret A. Goldberg of Gainesville, his devoted daughters Jennifer Gresh of West Palm Beach, FL and Tiffany de Berry of Lake Worth, FL, and his cherished grandchildren Kamila, Elana, and Nevan.
An open house in celebration of his life will be held on his beloved UF campus Saturday, May 21st from 3:30 p.m. to 5:30 p.m. in the Atrium Room 200 at Ustler Hall. E-mail jengresh@att.net for details.
Ed was a proud Galloneer blood donor, and his family asks all who are able to honor his memory by donating a pint of blood to their local blood bank. Memorial contributions to E.T. York Hospice Care Center are appreciated.
Published in Gainesville Sun from May 15 to May 16, 2011
Tuesday, April 19, 2011
Healing dancers!
I truly believe their dancing helps her heal!
Talk about three angels.
I couldn't resist sharing the video I captured on my iPhone. So darling!
Or as Grammy says, "Bless their little hearts..."
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
The park pose!
So you know me, I just had to share it's so cute.
Mom said that Tiff was using her phone to take a pic of the girls playing in the tree and when told to smile, Nevan came running over and wanted to be in the picture, too!
SO adorable. I sure do love you Mila, Ellie and Nevan!
Hugs & tickles, AuntJen
Monday, April 4, 2011
Ellie and Mila have a phone in their room
Ellie called me the other day at 8:30 a.m. and asked what I was doing. When I said I'm still lying in bed because I just woke up, she said that she thought maybe Mila had already gone to school because she was alone in her room so she thought she should check with me.
We chit chatted for a couple of minutes before she said she had to go downstairs and "check on" Mommy and Nevan.
So grown up!
Thursday, March 31, 2011
Girls sleepover at Aunt Jen's
Jupiter dog beach memories
Nature lovers
March 30, 2011
Facebook post by Tiffany de Berry:
Overheard discussing a classmate before his birthday party...
Mila: Does he like nature?
Ellie: Yes! When we're outside he sometimes likes to kill spiders!
Sunday, October 24, 2010
You are what you eat
Sunday, October 3, 2010
Ellie looks out for herself
Friday, September 24, 2010
My beautiful sugar tongue girl
de Berry crew and Grammy!
The spread included fried rice, tofu, cabbage with ginger dressing and Japanese Okra...it was delicious!
At the end of dinner Ellie chose dessert from her candy bag.....Lik-a-Stix!
As you can see, she thoroughly enjoyed it (as did her teeth and tongue!)
I love you, my silly Ellie!!


Thursday, September 23, 2010
The fantabulous Nevan BUDD de Berry!
Ellie's Favorite
So Ellie snuggles up to me yesterday and says, "Mommy, I really like it when you put your head on my head, just what we're doing now. You're my favorite in the family. Before Nevan was born, you were my favorite in the family, but now Nevan is my favorite." (I can only assume that Daddy is too scratchy and Mila too bossy?)
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
Nevan is one!
Monday, July 19, 2010
Stinky cheese
Ellie's Gator dream
Jen posted on Facebook:
4 yr old Ellie: Do you know what I'm dreaming about?
Dad: No.
Ellie: The gator game.
It's a picture and they're moving. It's a video in my head.
~
♥ ♥
Goooooo Gators!!!
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Water is a necessity of life
However, they've had a few "false starts" to their night's sleep and have been out for mediation for several different problems. 1. Ellie was kissing Mila too much and wouldn't quit even when Mila asked her to. 2. They were cold and needed a blanket. 3. Ellie got Mila's chin with an uppercut. 4. A couple of other "important events" which have escaped me now.
The Pièce de résistance came a few moments ago when Ellie came into my bedroom with a very somber facial expression. When asked what the problem was she very pleadingly said, "If you can't drink water you'll die."
Stopped me in my tracks. They both got their water and are in bed again. Hopefully for the night. Wishful thinking!
They are the joys of my life! And sweet Nevan too. He's such a little flirt. When he and Tiff were leaving tonight he leaned towards me with a big smile to get a hug. Wow what a feeling!
Sunday, April 25, 2010
Visiting Grammy
Mila: "Me?"
"Yeah, the whole family."
Mila: "Yes the heck!"
Friday, April 2, 2010
The luckiest grandma EVER!
They were each carrying a token of love for their Grammy. My favorite cup filled with lemonade (my favorite drink) and a plate with one pancake on it on which was written in red (icing?) "We hope you feel better" and there was also a big red heart drawn on the pancake.
What a wonderful life I have. To be loved by Mila and Ellie is totally indescribable. The joy they bring to my life is beyond comprehension. I am SO very blessed.
Saturday, March 27, 2010
Ellie will be a great mother
Unexpectedly she stood up and said in her most serious tone of voice: Baby Jane is thirsty. I've gotta pump!
Ellie is tuned in
- Mila, when you cry, I cry.
- Mila when you laugh, I laugh.
Saturday, March 6, 2010
Mila adds columns!

Mila has been adding single digits for weeks now. Tiff showed her how to carry and look how well she did! She was so proud of herself she wrote "Kamila's numbers, I was 5 years old when I did this!" Isn't that adorable!
Can you believe this!!!!! Whatta kid! And Ellie knows some single digit addition already too!
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
I love a decisive person!
We read the ingredients and then the instructions together. Her face was absolutely lit up with excitement at the prospect of having the “secret” to making brownies. She is so eager to know and to do everything.
As we discussed the fact that we should pick a day to make the brownies, we also discussed the fact that the recipe called for eggs to be added to the mixture but did not specify how many were needed.
She made an immediate “command decision” and stated firmly that we would use one.
Sunday, February 14, 2010
Influenza
~As per Aunt Jen
Friday, December 25, 2009
Food is apparently scarce to misbehavers
We said the prayer and began eating without Mila. More grumblings could be heard from the bathroom, becoming more insistent-sounding. Suddenly the most pathetically dramatic voice was heard saying, "I'm staaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrvvvvvvvvvvvviiiiiiiiiiiinnnnnnnngggggggg! I'll neeeeveeerr get to eat!"
Much as we tried not to, we all laughed heartily, IF guiltily, and waited with trepidation to see what's next!
Finally she emerged from the bathroom and joined us for dinner. A tragedy was narrowly averted and she was able to eat just in time before collapsing from hunger and starvation. I'm pretty sure she'll be nominated for an Oscar for that performance. It was definitely Oscar worthy.
Friday, November 13, 2009
Ellie's "crazy hair"
Me: "Ellie, what are you doing?"
Ellie: "Just wetting my hair so I wouldn't have crazy hair after I took out my ponytail."







